Strangers, Friends, & Enemies
Kopan Monastery—Dharma Talks “…watering the seed of compassion with a mind of equilibrium. And how do we achieve that equilibrium? Through practicing equanimity.” The vermillion swaddled monk was well into her introduction, surrounded by a posse of mostly greying students seated, dutifully distilling her dispersed wisdom into notebooks, when I blustered into the sacred space. Late. Frazzled. Banking that the enlightened Buddhists were showering me with their cultivated, compassionate understanding. I quickly nestled upon the only available seat, a bench reserved for bags and backpacks that released a farting staccato as I fidgeted, punctuating her eloquent speech. “Equanimity is a balanced attitude, seeing people as equal,” she explained, her soft...